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The Ultimate Success Formula

"We are not creatures of circumstance, we are creators of circumstance." - Benjamin Disraeli


Day 2 of the Unleash the Power Within. I re-learned a very valuable lesson that is very practical and applicable to ALL endeavors where you seek success. (Would you be doing something without planning to succeed? Apparently, when you do not deliberately exercise our power of choice and act, you are planning to fail.)

So allow me to share with you, the best insight i had from that day which may change your life forever, The Ultimate Success Formula.

1. Know Your OUTCOME

• Clarity is Power!!!
• Be specific. (e.g. save $10,000 instead of save some money)
• Put a deadline. (e.g. save $10,000 in three months)
• Decide to achieve it. See and Think about it every single day.

2. Know Your Reasons "WHY"

• Why is it a must?
• Test question: Is the consequence of not accomplishing your outcome more painful than accomplishing it? If the answer is yes, you have a strong "Why". Otherwise, find another reason. (e.g. If i do not save $10,000 in three months we will lose our home, my family will sleep on the streets and we won't have anything decent to eat!)
  

3. Take MASSIVE Action

• Do something out of your comfort zone.
• Do it now.
• Do it consistently and regularly to realize your outcome.

4. Know What You Are GETTING

• Evaluate your progress.
• Are you getting nearer or farther?
• Are you going faster or slower?

5. CHANGE Your Approach

• If you do see progress in what you are doing change the way you do things until you see the result you want.
  　
  

Here is something to reinforce what you learned:

　

Start living the life of your dreams.

Grow!

　

Radden :)
　

The Power Within: Unleashed

"There is always room in your life for thinking bigger, pushing limits and imagining the impossible." - Anthony Robbins

Today I realized a dream. I attended a seminar by my personal development "Idol" and World's No. 1 Success Coach, Anthony Robbins, LIVE! in Singapore. The seminar is entitled Unleash the Power Within.

I have attended great seminars from very good speakers but none came close to experiencing a program from the "rockstar" of the personal development world. Oh no, you would not get motivation from Tony. (You get motivation only from yourself.) The awesome value of his programs is that you learn and practice strategies on the spot supported by like-minded classmates which can give the immediate results you seek from improving your life.

Let me share with you the insights i gained from Day 1 of this 'Weekend Event for Creating Lasting Impact in my Life (and probably yours too.)

Warning:

the words you read here

may sound cliche

as they are not the substance of the lesson.

What brings these words to life

is the immediate application you do

to experience the WISDOM (Knowledge-In-Action) they contain

immediately and consistently.

Let us begin with FEAR:

• Fear stops action.
• The two primary fears are: 1) We're not enough. and 2) We won't be loved.
• To Grow you must face your fear.
• You do not fight fear, you dance with it.
• Fear exhausts itself if you go with it, or share its point of view, and...act anyway:)

The antidote to fear: FAITH

• Faith is the solution to all our problems with unknown solutions.
• Faith is a gift we receive at birth. Belief is learned.

The 3 elements of Practical Psychology:

• Fear stops us from moving forward. "What you are afraid of determines your limitations."
• The Meanings we associate to the things in our life controls our life. "Life is not about me; Life is about we."
• Human Needs make us do the things we do.
  

The Triad of Emotion.

• A pattern of Physiology (Motion creates emotion)
• A pattern of Focus ( What you focus on you will feel)
• A pattern of Language (Experience put in words changes its meaning)

There are 6 Fundamental Human Needs (1-4 Primal and 5-6 Spiritual)

• Certainty
• Uncertainty / Variety
• Significance
• Love & Connection
• Growth
• Contribution
  

Quotes for Desserts:

• Find a higher meaning and you improve your life.
• Psychology, not age, control your energy.
• Meaning is dictated by your state (feeling) and blueprint (beliefs, values, rules of life).
• All we want in life...is the feeling we get from the meaning we give.
• Meaning = Emotion = Life
• Pain is a symptom of the need to grow.
• With love time disappears; you disappear; and you need nothing else.
• Take back response-ability. Do more of what you want.
• Anything used grows/expands.
• Pride comes not from doing easy things but from hard things accomplished.
• If i can't, then i must.
  Gratitude is a great antidote for anger.

My Main course: The Firewalk experience.

"I literally walked barefoot on a 12 feet bed of red-hot coals!" The best part of it is that it is just a life metaphor...Awesome reference for SUCCESS!

• With a powerful state, you can do anything despite of fear.
• You can condition yourself to beckon a powerful state at will (in a heartbeat!).
• When you stretch yourself, you begin to make your life extraordinary immediately!
• YES...., I CAN!

Just in case you forget everything else i wrote here, remember just this most important thing in this post: "Everything you need to succeed in your life is already within you ready for use."

Grow and start living the life of your dreams!
　

Radden